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Selasa, 18 Oktober 2011

7 Ways to Overcome Shy Child



If your child is really shy, do not ever melabelnya, because it willmake a child's shyness is increasingly becoming. Remember,children will behave in accordance with what is labeled. You cancontribute to minimize shyness in children.

Previously, parents need to do is find out, what causes it and inwhat circumstances such as children become shy. Is it only whenoutside the home, in certain situations, and so on. That way,parents have accurate data before it handles its cause.

Furthermore, a number of ways parents can do this:

1. Teach children to behave, behave, and even bertata mannersin various situations. How she learned to start a conversation by greeting his friend. For example ask about, praised, or broughtsnacks to share. After the first communication went well, children can learn to raise topics that are hot or a favorite child.

2. Give children a skilled training that he spoke in front of crowdsor public places, starting with speaking in front of the mirror, and then in front of his parents and siblings at home.

3. Teach also so that he can lead by giving him the duties and responsibilities, such as leading prayer in the classroom.

4. Encourage her to be brave and open when expressing his frustration over steam.

5. Parents give an example, how to become a person who is confident and bold, so that children can emulate. While at the restaurant, then get the food that is not appropriate order, for example, parents dare ask the waiter to replace it.

6. Create a safe environment for children, so children do not feelanxious or afraid blamed, ridiculed, scolded, and so on.

7. Help your child make her feel comfortable with her ​​feelings, it also helps build his confidence with a variety of skills.

If parents felt it was the maximum but still not managed to change the child's shyness, there's no harm in asking the help of experts.That way, potential and social skills of children is not compromiseddue to excessive shyness.  

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